We often think of the waiting season as a time of stagnation, a limbo where we sit idly by and hope for a promise to be fulfilled. Maybe it’s a job, a relationship, or a breakthrough in our lives that we feel is just around the corner. But what if this waiting season is more than just a gap in time, a pause before the promise? What if God is using this season to shape us, refine us, and prepare us for something greater?
I’ll be honest with you: I’ve been in my own waiting season for the last three months, and it’s been far from easy. If I’m being completely transparent, I’ve fallen into the trap of thinking that waiting on God means it will pass quickly, that the promise will just suddenly appear. The truth, however, is that the waiting season is never a waste. Every sermon on faith, endurance, and wilderness seasons has the same underlying message God uses these seasons for something bigger than we can imagine.
For me, I’ve been stuck in the mindset that this time of waiting would pass as quickly as the others. In previous waiting seasons, God fulfilled promises fairly quickly, and I assumed this one would be the same. But clearly, this is not the case. And now, after three months, I realize I need to change my perspective. Instead of just “waiting it out,” I need to grow through it.
The truth is, I’ve been acting like this season is temporary, spending without thought and getting caught up in habits that aren’t constructive. I’ve been overeating, bumming around, and wasting time, thinking it’s just a phase. But God has given me a revelation this waiting period is meant to shape me, to refine me, and I need to embrace it. I’ve had opportunities to get moving on things He’s put on my heart like reviving my blog and taking better care of my body but I’ve been stalling.
A while ago, I asked God to help me overcome my struggle with overeating. Yet, instead of taking action, I ignored His gentle nudges to change my habits. The overeating has gotten out of hand. I’ve been eating junk, sitting around all day, and avoiding exercise. I wanted to go the easy route, but God said, “No.” His answer wasn’t the quick fix I hoped for, but a call to truly address my gluttony. He revealed to me two simple things I could do to manage my overeating: walk once a day in Karura and practice intermittent fasting.
I’ll be honest I’ve been dragging my feet on this. I’ve ignored His promptings, choosing to do nothing instead of taking action. But as March draws to a close, I can’t help but feel that it’s time to change. This season of waiting doesn’t have to be wasted. What if I use it to work on my weight loss journey, to become healthier, both physically and spiritually? I’ve been restless and idle, and rather than just “waiting,” I can use this time to grow.
It’s embarrassing to admit that it’s taken me this long to realize this, but I believe God has been waiting on me to obey. In His grace, He provided me with the wisdom to save money while I was working, so I’m not in a financial crisis during this time. Still, my laziness, procrastination, and denial have caused me to waste so much time. But now, I’m ready to do something about it.
The first step is to plan. I need to invest in what I need to succeed: gym clothes, shoes, and meal planning. I’m setting my intention to eat within a six-hour window each day, fasting for at least 18 hours. I’m also committing to waking up early and going to bed early. I know it won’t be easy, but I trust that God will provide the resources, guidance, and strength to fulfill His will.
The motivation is clear: I want to get healthier, to fit into all those pretty dresses that have been hanging in my closet for too long. But more importantly, I want to say “Yes” to God in this season. This is a time to honor Him, to grow, and to learn what He has been trying to teach me all along.
So, here I am, putting this out there to hold myself accountable. I’m starting April 1st, and my goal is simple: make this waiting season count. It won’t be easy, but I know that every step I take in obedience will lead me closer to the person God wants me to be. If you’re in a waiting season too, I encourage you to embrace it. Don’t just wait for something to change use this time to grow. God is refining you, pruning you, and preparing you for what’s ahead. Trust that this waiting season is never wasted.
Let’s make this waiting season count!
...THROUGH MY EYES ✨ 