• Entering 31: Shedding, Surrendering, and Starting Again 🌸

    I began my 31st year on my period — cramps, bloating, and all. And honestly? It felt kind of poetic. Because lately, I’ve been thinking about all the things I want to shed in my life. Ideas that no longer serve me. Bad habits that pull me further away from God. Eating patterns that harm…

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  • Returning To The Nest

    Returning To The Nest

    A few months after we were ordered into lock-down in March, I left my apartment rental in L. Kabete and moved home again, aged 29. It wasn’t easy deciding to isolate w/my parents, but with a serious drop in income , I could no longer part w/the rent expected per month and preferred to save…

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  • 2020

    2020

    It’s been a complicated year for sure. It started well. I was feeling good and life felt full of promise.  I started 2020 feeling that this would be my year. Then Covid-19 pulled the rug out from under me and the entire world and we’re still dealing with it. Instead of being mad about it…

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  • First Apartment Experience

    First Apartment Experience

    I’ve told myself I’ll move every year but never do. This past June, I finally made the big jump and got my own place. It’s a pretty spacious one bedroom with a good closet and a nice balcony. It was quite the journey and there were lots of steps involved but I made it! Moving…

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  • Turning 28

    Turning 28

    I will be 28 years old in a few days and I have no idea what this age means. How has it been ten years since I graduated high school? How am I so close to 30?  Craziness! When I graduated college, I didn’t know what my three year plan looked like, I knew I was…

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  • The Evolution of Friendships: Why Some Connections Fade Over Time

    It’s a well-documented truth—studies have shown that as we grow older, our circle of friends tends to shrink. You may have noticed it yourself: the friendships that once felt inseparable gradually shift, and the people who were once central to your life may now feel like distant acquaintances. I often think back to my earliest…

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  • Leaving The Nest

    Leaving The Nest

    There comes a moment when we must leave the nest. The question “Should I move?” has always been in the back of my mind, but, for a while, living at home and saving my money just made sense. Plus, if I was honest with myself, the thought of moving out of my parents’ place usually…

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  • Reading To Escape

    Reading To Escape

    I have been an avid reader all my life . I read a new book every month or so, which adds up to about 12 books per year. As a rule, I always read at least few pages every day. Often it is a lot more than that. I squeeze reading in whenever I can — primarily weeknights…

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  • The ‘Reel’ World

    The ‘Reel’ World

    While I have been a voracious reader for most of my life, I have also been a movie addict. So, both books and film go back as far as I can remember, one an activity that I engaged in on my own, while the other has been a non-social, social activity (perfect for me, allowing…

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  • Getting Over The Fear of Driving

    I went for driving lessons after graduating high school, I was 18, waiting for my KCSE results. My parents wanted to keep me busy, so they suggested it, and I agreed thinking it wouldn’t be so bad to have a license. Plus the thought of all the money and time I’d save driving to school…

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